Sheila
Lindell
Dr.
Brown
GWS
220W
April
20, 2012
In Demand: GLBT Rights
In 1963 Martin Luther King
had a dream that one day his children would not be judged by the color of their
skin, but by their character (King, 2012) . Fast forward, the
year we live in people are still being judged by the color of their skin. It is
a fact that Martin Luther died fighting for the civil rights of all people. Harvey
Milk, the first openly gay man to be elected into office, also spoke of dreams;
his dreams were that all people would be treated equally, despite their sexual
orientation. Harvey Milk also died fighting for civil rights. I am sure we all
want to live in a place where hatred for skin color, sexual preference or by
their wealth. The similarities in the level of discrimination felt by both of
these groups of people have been felt for years, but thankfully there are leaders
in small communities and globally groups still fighting for the equality of all
people. Human rights are rights that belong to all people regardless of your
sexual preference. It seems like such an easy concept, equal rights for all
people, yet the driving forces of religion and what seems “right” to some keep
people on opposite sides of this struggle. What should have been learned by now
is that nobody should stand in the way of another person’s dreams.
GLBT stands for gays,
lesbian, bisexual and transgender, and even this abbreviation has evolved over
the years and continues to change as more people define their sexual preference
as asexual and queer. Initially the gay rights movement in the United States
started in the 1970’s (Bull,1990). Gay
Liberation Front (GLF) existed initially without the existence of the lesbian
scene. Lesbians initially were directing their efforts into influencing other
women rather than helping the gay movement through the late 1970’s. It seems as
though in the 70’s the term gay was closely related to men rather than woman.
One of the biggest movements for gay rights happened in 1969, NYC police raided
a gay bar in Greenwich Village called the Stonewall Inn, instead of taking it
from the police that night, the gays fought back, this was a huge underground
movement empowering gay people to stand up and demand rights too. This one
event empowered people to come out of the closet, and the as the organizations
that grew nationwide. On the anniversary of these riots a pride parade
commenced and over 5,000 people initially marched for their right to be out of
the closet (Mifflin, 1991) . In the United
States we have a long road ahead to consider ourselves equal in rights. The
basic rights that GLBT in the United States and globally are asking for are the
right to marry, adoption, and health benefit (insurance) from employers, family
medical leave and death benefits without penalty or death in some countries.
Taking a map and looking
for a place that a non-heterosexual can live equally as another person is
scare. The United States and most of Europe have no rights that say you can’t
be homosexual; they just will not acknowledge you as an equal member of
society. The African continent is extreme in the fact that most of Africa feels
that it is punishable by death. Except for South Africa, which is extremely
liberal and allows all people to marry regardless of sexuality, in fact it is
written within their constitution (Seager, 2009) .It seems so ironic
when most of Africa either punishes one or kills for who you are. Where would
the worse place to live be, Iraq, Iran and Saudi Arabia. Here a person can die
for being gay or lesbian. In Iran more than 4,000 GLBT have been killed since
1979 for their sexual orientation (Seager, 2009) . The Netherlands were the first country to
recognize equality, although a triumph, it was only eleven years ago that this
recognition came to fruition (Seager, 2009) . Looking to our
friends directly north, Canada, They pride themselves with their belief in
equal rights for all individuals. The CCLA made it possible for all people,
regardless of sexual orientation to marry in the 1980’s (Canadian
Civil Liberties Association, 2012) . Canadians believe
that not allowing one to marry whom they wish is discriminatory. The fact that
marriage is allowable makes the right to adopt legal and included is the health
and death benefits legal. No person will be denied their rights as their sexual
preference does not matter in Canada; the fact that they are human is enough.
The United States has
recently allowed the church and state to be the front runner of controversy
politically speaking involving civil rights. The extremeness that people have
for this one issue, marriage, has become scary to watch and live through. Our
national government is allowing its individual states to decide marriage rights,
a stance that should be by a unified government. Our government is to
ultimately stand as one and in that we should reflect the beliefs of more
liberal countries. Currently six states allow same sex marriage, Iowa being one
of the most shocking states to date to allow it. It will continue to be a huge
debate in the upcoming 2012 presidential elections. With the National government allowing its
states to decide the fates of individual’s civil rights, it could be reflective
of Africa one day. Extreme states allowing killing of a lesbian while another
states allows a lesbian equal rights could be a reality. The need to understand
religious viewpoints is imperative at this point. The similarities in
Christianity and Islam are what need to need explored with regards to
homosexuality. The term abomination is the ultimate of betrayal and condemnation;
it is frequently used to scare people to “behave” (Holben, 1999) . Religions believe
that homosexuality is the act that one performs when in reality it is what the
person is. In Leviticus 18:22 it
is stated that if a man lies with a male as a woman, both of them have
committed abomination. This reading alone could send a person straight into
purgatory. Translations over time and the preaching on this reading have been
misread. What we need to remember is that in Biblical times people didn’t know
what created others, the man’s seed is what cause procreation, to spill this
seed is an abomination because obviously without seed no procreating can happen (Karslake,
2007) .
Without remembering the times and the meaning then, things can be misconstrue
over the years. In the Qur’an (7:80-83), homosexuality is clearly condemned by
the Prophet Allah. It is felt by Muslims that it is there duty to stop the
promoting of homosexual behavior, even to the point of extinguishing them.
Those two readings alone can get a person killed depending on the state or
country they reside in. Without the approval of Allah and God there can be no
thought of marriage for a couple of the same sex. Without the approval of
marriage, there can be no adoption, legal rights and such. It really does come
back to the religious view of the country, an awakening that if there is a God
and he loves all people and who died for our sins, why would he think it was
wrong to love one another, even if you were the same sex? One thing to remember
these books are another man’s interpretations, skewed or not depending on who
is interpreting; the world could be different in their beliefs (Winer, 2009) . However, it is
always funny to see the men who are watching porn; they will watch two women
and enjoy themselves yet deny that they can be a couple. Please do not get off
on porn involving two women if you are not willing to allow that sort
relationship to be legal, a double standard I’d say. Biblically in Romans
6:19, it speaks of lawlessness leading to lawlessness, and how holiness is
right, perhaps porn should come with a Biblical warning on the packaging.
According to the American
Civil Liberties Union, 11 states allow GLBT people adoption privileges.
Although It must be noted that four states completely outlaw same sex adoption.
Why it is that adoption is ok but marriage is not. One reason, same sex
partners are more likely to be ok with adopting children with special needs
than others, it is also the fact that there are children needing adoption and
instead of foster care it is better for these children to be in forever homes.
Why are people uncomfortable with GLBT adoption? It could be the fact that the
child is exposed to only one sex parents. If a boy is raised by 2 mothers it is
believed he will not succeed. Rebuttals to this statement could be that in the
home of two loving adults, it will not matter. How many men are raised out of
single mother homes, is this any worse than 2 mothers? Should a country that
doesn’t want birth control given to young woman, allowing them to procreate on
accident, take away their child because she is now a single mother raising a
son? It is sad thought that a child raised in a same sex household will
probably be the subject of teasing him/herself due to the fact his/her parents
are same sex. In this world of bullying that is a bad thing for a child to have
to deal with. However, if we lived in a world were all people were treated
equally that fear may not have to be a worry. How about the children who run
away from their homes as juveniles who are questioning their sexual orientation
and their parents have alienated them, a perfect match might be the same sex
couple waiting to be a loving forever family. Once again the countries that are
open to same sex marriage are allowing those couples the right to adopt. The
Netherlands, South Africa and Germany are a few to name and of course Canada
fully allows adoption privileges too. Current research has shown that knowing
two parents are better than a single parent, even if the couple are gay (How Does the
Gender of Parents Matter, 2010) . It has been proven
that parents who are committed and stable are better than one. It has always
been stated that it is better that a child be raised by a mother and a father
but as of yet, no research has proven this hypothesis. This article alone
proves solid relationships are the foundation for a child, not the sex of
parents.
Currently employers have to
decide if they are to allow a partner to be on any insurance, or rather,
recognize the fact you have a relationship even though it is not lawfully ok in
some states because of your sexual orientation? Some employers are allowing
people to include their partners their benefits. The ironic part however, is
that it is usually better to be covered individually by most companies rather
than a person plus one on health care coverage. Take note that health care is
controversial on its own and depending on the country one lives in as to whether
or not they receive medical care. However that being said in the United States
alone if equal marriage was allowed it would not be an issue, insurance would
have to be issued.
One thing to be proud of is
the amount of groups and individuals who continue to fight for equal rights,
internationally. Small wins by many will keep the dreams alive. Recently a rule
was changed to allow a transgender woman to compete in the Miss Universe pageant (Long, 2012) . It was through the
organization GLAAD, which a Vancouver transgender woman will be allowed to
compete in Canada for Miss Universe this year. This is a shared victory for
woman and transgender people both. It was stated that everybody should
participate in every part of society. The Human Rights Campaign is another
group that is fighting for marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples. In
recent polls they conducted it has been founded that 53% of Americans support
equality in marriage. The campaign helps to get the beliefs out to the general
public about what GLBT couples want, through advertising and it is through
their positive promotion that the word is getting out about equality.
Internationally there are many groups; ILGA is a group that works in over 100
countries to promote equality for gays and lesbians, they regularly petition
governments and keep the word out about equality.
The civil rights of gay
people but especially women are constantly being thrown to the wind, it seems
as though woman are a piece of meat that can be treated wrongly in this
misogynistic world. However, the continual fights for our rights is what needs
to happen, we should not and will not sit down and take it. Freedom should be
for all no matter your sex or your sexual preference. Remember the dreams of
those who chose to believe and speak out for what they believe; we should not
let those dreams die with them. A world that allows love to be free to all
without fear of prejudice or even death seems like an extreme dream. Perhaps
that is where the saying goes something about rose colored glasses, but what a
wonderful place it could be.
Works Cited
How Does the Gender of Parents Matter. (2010, January
20). Journal of Marriage and Family, pp. 3-20.
Canadian Civil Liberties Association. (2012, March 26).
Bull, C. a. (n.d.). Perfect Enemies:The Religious Right, the
Gay Movement and the Politics of the 1990's. New York: Crown.
Holben, L. (1999). What Christians think about
homosexuality: Six representative viewpoints. Bible Press.
Karslake, D. (Director). (2007). For The Bible Tells Me So
[Motion Picture].
King, M. L. (2012, April 17). Martin Luther King Jr.
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Long, C. (2012, April). Miss Universe pageant allowing
transgender women. New York.
Mifflin, H. (1991). The Reader's Companion to American
History.
Seager, J. (2009). Lesbian Rights. In J. Seager, The
Penguin Atlas of Women of the World (pp. 26-27). New York: The Penguin
Group.
Winer, M. C. (2009). Patenting Marriage: Same-Sex
Marriages vs. the Right Wing. Retrieved from religion.lilithezine.com.
The sexual orientation of different individuals definitely has, as your paper pointed out, been a global issue for the past few decades. One aspect of this topic that does not seem to get brought to the surface of debates that often is how adoption rights for same sex couples is viewed globally. In all honesty, I had never really thought about this aspect of the argument, partly because I do not see the reason why it would be such an issue to begin with. The fact that there are children in the world without a home and loving guardians is disheartening. To think that there are four states in the US is actually appalling. Personally, I do not believe that sexual orientation makes a significant amount of difference in whether someone is a good parent or not. Furthermore, I feel that every child deserves to have a place to call home and as long as that child’s parents love and take care of the child properly, the personal choice in sexuality should not matter. Also, I liked how you raised the question “How many men are raised out of single mother homes, is this any worse than 2 mothers?” because it starts to enter into the territory of what is truly important in raising children. There are plenty of single parents in the world, many of who are wonderful parents; I do not see a reason why an additional parent in the equation needs to raise such an issue. Throughout the course we have seen how having an absent parent can severely affect a child and with that in mind, there shouldn’t be a reason why a child should have to go without parents altogether because someone believes that two “moms” is such a travesty.
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